When She Chooses

To the women who feel like they are all alone, that no one understands them in any way what so ever. Here is a message for ALL  OF YOU.

        YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL IN EVERY WAY YOU ARE NOW AND ARE GOING TO BE.

I know a lot of women out there, stay with a guy because she feels that is the best she is ever going to get. That any man in his right mind would not even think of dating or getting to know her. Well you are quite wrong. In each and every one of us women out here, we have the characteristics and features of a lady, of a female. Someone who has a heart of gold and can love no matter how hard we have been hit and kicked to the floor.

A woman is someone that can hold her head high and look at the person who kicked her when she was down, smile at him/her and wish them a good day. A woman is strong enough to not let her past experiences slow her down and only use it as fuel to make her way to the top, showing compassion to each and every person she passes by. 

I know that some of you girls may feel that you  do not have the courage and strength to go another day in this world, but I want you to know that there is beauty in every part of you that is just waiting to shine. That can only happen when you realize that you have so much to give this world. Do not let anyone or anything slow you down!

-Much Love-

Everyone's Weakness

Once again, I come to think of what everyone really wants and needs. A lot of people complain that there are too many players out there and it is so hard to find love these days. The truth is we do not really know what love is. We guess that love has to come in this certain shape and size and structure. And we find the person that does fits the criteria, only to find ourselves being dissapointed. I know I have said that you need to keep to your standards when finding someone, but the most important standard and evaluation you can have, is a person's heart.

I know at the end of the day, player or not, we all want someone who is eager to hear from us. Smile each time he/she hears our voice and yes there are fights and arguments, who doesn have those?!? But caring for someone is being able to overlook those flaws and look deep within one's self and also into that person's soul and see beauty. It easy to find happiness when you're done whining why this person cant be the one for you, but love is too strong a word for one to use.

Love is seeing in someone the reason to move on from the past, willing to spend each passing moment in the present and being able to see the dreams and your lives for the future. Love is sacrifice, bearing the pain of seeing someone happy and not resenting it. Making someone happy even if you know in the end it has no value or worth for you. Love is being able to be unselfish. To give that last piece of chocolate just so they have an extra bit of sweetness in them. Love is by far, pure. It has no ill intentions other than putting a smile on someone's face, willing to go the distance, thick or thin to make it work. Understanding that sometimes if it does not work that it s okay to move on and let the other find true happiness with or without you. Love is just amazing, then again, this is just my perspective of love hoping to find someone with the same ideas of it too.

Love is Love no one on Earth can change the power it has. If a heart is pure then nothing can take away its beauty.

-Much Love-

A Sensitive Heart

As it has been a long hiatus from blogging, i would like to take this post as one to vent. For all the men that are clueless on how to treat a woman right, here is a pretty good tip :- she probably knows she is not perfect damn it, she looks in the mirror everyday trying to convince herself she is and then you come along and point out her flaws and its a never ending cycle.


All you got to do is just give her a hug, say that it is all going to be all right and then just hold her and know that no matter what you are going to be there. She needs you and if you are just another critic then if you really care about her, LEAVE. 


It is hard enough trying to maintain a relationship, but doing it with someone that honestly does not care about you is even worse. It is okay to be single and have standards. It is what YOU want , and no one else can judge you or deny you your desires/needs. Just make sure that in the end when you have received what you have asked for its really what you wanted. Wait as long and look as much as you can. Do not settle for anything below your expectations. This is YOUR life. Do not let someone else take over control. 


Much Love