The little magic in life

So ladies, I know a lot of us are confused and have the lines blurred out between  knowing whether you are a gold digger and asking him to get a job. The solemn truth is that you are not a gold digger if you ask him to go out and earn some money. You are not a penny monger if you ask him to go out and send in applications and resumes and keep searching till something comes up. In fact, you are raising him up and pushing him out to greater things.  

A lot of people look at a person and think of she is just using him to get money and sometimes, yes , I agree that is the case. But if she hollers at you and keeps on pestering you to go and make something of yourself, instead of sulking and moping about at home, trust me that is not a gold digger. 

So, if you do have someone that actually cares about you and wants to be there for you, if you do not make an effort or make a move to stand where she is, trust me she will leave.As the saying goes. if she is easy she won't be worth it, if she is worth it , she won't be easy. So if you feel she is the one, keep pushing on and fight. A lot of people these days has forgotten the terms such as fight, will power, perseverance. People expect things to be given to them, we wait for an opportunity, we sit and wait till the time comes. 

How in the world do you expect things to happen without you pushing forward and making a move? Life does not just happen, you make it happen. You do not ever sit and wait and watch it go by, because before you know it, half a year is gone and all you have done is sit and watch other people make things happen for themselves. 

A bit like magic, life takes it's course. In order to have fun with magic that you see a magician doing, you need to have a little bit of faith and belief. The funny thing about this comaprison is that in life, you have to be both, the believer and the magician to see and experience the magic and surprises that await you. You have to be the one pulling the rabbit out of the hat and watch in amazement as it looks at you and then hops away into it's own habitat. Life has it's ups and downs but you gotta be a little crazy and believe that any moment now you will escape from the chest where your hands have been tied and sealed shut and come out as a victor.